Focus on this sensation as being something that’s positive and something that is making you a better slave. You can do this by focusing on how good the pain feels after it hits your body. Connecting Pain with PleasureĪ painslut not only enjoys pain, but they also will begin to derive pleasure from it. Don’t be afraid to call out your safeword. While you want to please your Dom/me by accepting all the pain they give you, you must always feel for signs within yourself as to when too much is too much. That way your Dom/me knows the exact point at which you can handle the pain they are giving you. In fact your Dominant is expecting you to call out your safeword. Just because you are learning to become a painslut, does not mean you can’t say your safeword if things become more painful then you can handle. And then, at the next training session, try to move past that breaking point. You need to ask for more and more, until you hit the point where it’s too much. The more you experience it, the more you will be able to take it without flinching and without shrieking. You can also focus on relaxing your body (which often happens naturally when you breathe deeply), as this will decrease the chance that you will have muscle tension in addition to your pain.īut the most effective way to increase your pain tolerance is to continue to experience pain. Each time you feel a wave of pain course through you, you need to breathe in deeply, helping to bring your focus to your breath instead of to the pain. To begin, you need to focus your breathing when you are experiencing pain. If not, there are ways to continue to build your pain tolerance so that you can take more and more from your Master or Mistress. Some people are born with high tolerance for pain, and this might include you.

That is, if giving pain is a major part of their Dominant desires. If you aren’t willing to take pain in order to please your Master/Mistress, you might want to rethink whether you are the right slave for them. Each time your Dom/me wants you to take more pain, realize this is because they believe you can take more and they want to see just how far you are willing to go in order to show them your commitment to your role in their life. Realize now that you are the one they have chosen to accept and to take the pain they are giving, and that this is a special present of their time and of their attention. Right now, you need to start looking at pain, not as something that you have to endure, but as a gift from your Master or Mistress.

Pain Slut by J.A. Rock